I previously served as a counselor at San Diego Hospice. Working with people at the end of their lives and working with grieving partners and families has a way of putting life in perspective. I found a few consistent themes that came up and I came up with three ideas that can be difficult to […]
November 10, 2012
Guilt is a very powerful force. I don’t recommend utilizing it (with the possible exception being if your adult daughter starts eating the guacamole you just made yourself for lunch, hypothetically speaking), but I acknowledge its power. When my daughters were growing up if the subject of someone making someone else feel guilty came up, […]
August 31, 2012
Couples often seek therapy after there has been a betrayal in the relationship. This often takes the form of sexual acting out by one of the partners through affairs or pornography. The partner who acted out sexually nearly always expresses remorse about the betrayal. Remorse (being sorry), by itself, is generally insufficient to bring about […]
August 1, 2012
This post and a few to follow are going to speak to the issue of addiction. For the clients that I work with in my practice, much more common than alcohol or drug addiction is sexual addiction in various forms. An important part of the road to healing is working through the denial and shame. […]
December 9, 2012
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