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Catching Up

September 21, 2018

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I guess you wonder where I’ve been.  I search to find the love within.  Bobby Caldwell You can bend my ear.  We can talk all day.  But just make sure I’m around when you finally have something to say.  Toad the Wet Sprocket The wonder of it all, Baby.  Yeah, yeah, yeah.  Paul McCartney After […]

EURSR (The Essence of Empathy and Intimacy)

April 13, 2018

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Many of my colleagues are good at coming up with clever acronyms (that spell out words) to help clients remember key coping strategies.  I might have to really think about it if I want to figure out how to make this spell something. This one is Engage, Understand, Reflect, Share, Repeat.  It involves both the […]

Presumption of Innocence

March 9, 2018

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When accused of a crime in America, we have the presumption of innocence.  Essentially, we do not have to prove that we are innocent of whatever we are accused.  The assumption is that we are innocent until proven otherwise. A few decades back, I was in traffic school as a result of a speeding ticket.[1]  […]

That’s The Gig, Man

February 7, 2018

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Perhaps you were caught up in the moment and did not realize what you were committing to.  I was not at your wedding, but based upon the service of marriage I found in the hymnal, it probably went something like this.  The pastor turned to you and said, “Scott will you have Carol to be […]

Spiritual Leadership

January 2, 2018

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A common complaint I hear from Christian wives is that their husbands are not the “spiritual leader” of the family.  My experience is that the men at whom the complaint is leveled vary a great deal in where they are at in their spiritual journey.  Some are indeed nominal Christians.  Others regularly attend church, go […]

Wrapping Up the Year

December 20, 2017

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“I guess you wonder where I’ve been. I search to find the love within.”  Bobby Caldwell “You can bend my ear.  We can talk all day.  Just make sure I’m around when you finally have something to say.”  Toad the Wet Sprocket “You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.”  Ruth […]

Following Your Dreams

September 16, 2017

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Love is about all the changes you make and not just three small words.  Frank Turner It’s all worth nothing alone.  Graham Parker My wife is a big fan of Hallmark movies.  I can enjoy them well enough with a few provisos.  First, it helps if the acting is at least decent.  I need to […]